Terminology

When speaking to a person with disabilities, it is important to pay attention to terminology. There are certain words that are inappropriate, or incorrect.

"afflicted with"
"affliction”
“Suffering from"
“unfortunate”
“victim of”
“poor”
“differently-abled”

Realize that many people do not allow their disabilities to hold them back, and do not appreciate feeling as
though their disability is wrong, or a burden.

Words and Phrases to avoid

A person who uses a wheelchair
A person who is blind
A person who has autism
A person who has a disability is not defined by that disability.

Here is a great video on
person-first language:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=obbwb1bJ5io

Use Person First Language

On the same token; just because a person with a disability does not
want to be viewed with pity, does not mean he/she wants to be viewed
as “courageous,” “brave,” “special,” or “superhuman.”

Everyone is just
living their lives the best way they know how, and learning to live with a disability does not make one more courageous or brave thananyone else.

Words and Phrases to avoid

Referring to someone in a wheelchair, DO NOT use the words“wheelchair bound.”

Speaking about persons with disabilities do not use the words “the disabled,” or “handicapped.”

What not to say when:

It is okay if you slip up, so don’t be afraid of talking to anyone with a disability because you are scared of saying something you believe is offensive. Most people with a disability have heard it all before, and will simply correct you and move on.